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Meeting
that someone special
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In
your search for 'Miss/Mr. Right', you might have met many people.
But how many of them fit into the picture of your 'ideal' mate?
Probably very few. Or sometimes none! Occasionally, you may have
met someone who appears very charming or attractive at the first
instance, but when you get to know him/her better, you realize that
he/she does not match your requirements. In a vast world flooded
with people, how does one ever get to know who is the 'one' for
him/her? Seeking that 'special someone' may require a great deal
of patience and the sincerity of efforts on your part, but if you're
determined to find your Mr. or Ms. Right, you definitely will. Here
are a few tips to help you increase the possibilities of finding
your 'perfect' life partner:
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Decide
what you want in a partner |
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Most
people spend more time planning their vacations than they spend
planning their lives! Before you begin your search, take time off
your busy schedules and get into some serious thinking. After all,
you're setting out to take the most important decision of your life!
Know what you desire in your prospective spouse and what you expect
out of this relationship. |
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Be aware of people around
you |
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No
matter how busy a person you are, do not loose track of the outside
world. Be sensitive and keep your eyes open. You never know when
you might bump into someone that fits your profile. |
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Increase your contacts |
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Don't
act on presumptions or personal opinions. Don't discount any particular
method of meeting other singles. You're going to need a large number
of contacts to find the few that fit your requirements. |
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Dress appropriately |
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This
doesn't mean that you always need to be dressed formally in a party
wear. Just dress decently enough to look smart and tasteful. |
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Greet people |
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Practice
greeting people at social gatherings. While at work, say hello to
your colleagues and staff. When you bump into someone you know while
in an elevator, or passing in the street, make eye contact and smile,
and then say a polite "hello". This is great practice for when it
will be needed. |
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Include your friends & family in
your search |
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Let
your friends and family know you're looking for your life mate.
They may know someone socially or from work whom they think would
suit your match requirements. Don't be too picky. You'd be surprised
how well your friends know you! |
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Be open |
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Don't
be self-conceited. Many people unconscientiously close themselves
off to others by averting their eyes, crossing their arms, and turning
themselves away. Be aware of your body language and use it to tell
others that you're approachable. |
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Be alert |
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Sometimes
looks may prove to be quite deceptive and the first impression may
not essentially be the last impression. Be observant while communicating
with people on the Internet. Trust your instincts and be sure of
the relationship before getting emotionally involved with someone
or giving away your personal information. Let it go slow and gradual.
Remember there are no shortcuts in relationships.
You’ve waited for your Prince/Princess Charming for all these
years. Wouldn’t you want it to be worth the wait? |
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